Fuck the patriarchy and fuck each other instead

Sexual autonomy. The principle that each person owns the right to define their own sexuality without fear of violence, bigotry and hatred. All gender, all orientations, including slut, all of our our personal sexual desires and preferences insofar as all acts are consensual, should never be an area of political concern. Another's sexuality is not a topic for discussion. We don't judge it, shame it, discuss it, denounce it, make laws against it, expose it, use it to deny anything.

Our indoctrination about female sexuality is so deep and complete that most women never question why it is that childbirth is so challenging for our species.

Yes, we have huge heads. So, it's easy to see that this is a major task for the human body to accomplish.

When an organism's survival depends on a physically demanding task, they're programmed to prepare for this important work. Hunters spar as youngsters, Prey and predator compete with peers for speed, dexterity, male bird practice their mating displays, males spar to the death to demonstrate genetic dominance. Women? Human birth involved the largest disparity between birth canal size and size of offspring. Litte i

For animals who hunt, they spar with each other to gain skill, strength and stamina. This is self evident in nature in every case.

Our skulls are huge. We are an incredibly advanced species, clearly. Yes, childbirth would require enormous preparation, since the survival of our species, and our continued extraordinary evolution would require the female of the species to be well prepared for the task at hand.

Thus, the human female body is built to withstand, endure, and enjoy long, intense bouts of intercourse that tone and strengthen the pelvic floor for the immense task of birthing a human offspring. Deep, repetitive penetration releases orgasms unlike those stemming from the clitoris. Without these extended sessions bringing cosmic levels of ecstasy and pleasure for th efemale, she would certainly be unlikely to comply.

Fortunately, women's bodies can orgasm several different ways, for hours on end. There's almost no limit to how much sexual activity a woman's body can take.

When toned and strengthen in this way, the female human is much less likely to experience significant difficulty in passing her infant through the vaginal canal.

Women,  when given the opportunity to develop skill, stamina, strength and wisdom about their own incredibly complex and cosmic sexual landscapes, understand intrinsically that this is the natural order of things.

Yes, women who step out of the conventional binary dogma that less sex is more virtuous than more are shunned as harlots, sluts, whores, tramps, discarded trash not be brought home or taken seriously. All our advanced notwithstanding, the patriarchy still holds the narrative on female sexuality.

The next step is for women to embrace all that is feminine. All that is sexuality, all that is anything that eminates from the desires, wishes, whims and wills of a female body. When girls  coming into theirsexuality are passed down real sex education taught by women, for women about women's needs, and we own our seductive, sexual, nasty whorish, slutty selves, which we all are, we begin to own the narrative about female sexuality.

But for every side glance you give toward a scantily clad woman, snide comment, slut shaming, head shaking, shunning or whatever the fuck form of female aggression you inheritied from the patriarchy, we lose again the chance to frame our sexuality on our terms not theirs.

There is clearly no tangible, logical, scientific reason to believe that there is any reason for humans to be monogomous and for females not to have mulitple partners at once and over the span of their life.

We have gone so far as to outright pathologize what we call, "hypersexuality" where we believe women who desire sex on a constant basis must be so because of an imbalance. In contrast I offer the logic that people who are imbalanced and shunned by their peers for being so, become less conventional in their sexuality since there's no reason not to, since they're outcast already.

Once on the other side, there's no denying the obviousness of this. Like seeing the zeros and ones of the Matrix, detatching from conventional dogma allows one to see the world through many different lenses.

Instead, the decided a long time ago they came up with man one woman. This was their way of controlling our rampant, insatiable sexual desires.

The patriarchy teaches women that we don't like sex that it has to be taken from us, (rape culture). We have been literally beaten into submission so that we do not actively aggressively seek out sex. Men will say they like sexually aggressive women, but it's not socially acceptable to marry them. Our dogma, laws, religions, stories and myths all place virginity as the highest virtue. Those words even stem from the same root.

So, we're separated into two kinds of women, the kind you marry and the kind you fuck. And those two groups don't really interact much.

I  can tell you as a promiscuous slut, that other women are incredibly threatened by that. Even, strangely enough, other promiscuous sluts. Go figure. Women barely notice that we are constantly pitting these two feminines against each other, a divide and conquer strategy that has worked for two and a half millennia. Yes there was a time when women were not property and they owned the narrative, and I mean OWNED the narrative about female sexuality.

How can any modern feminist not see that fully embracing every aspect of female sexuality in whatever forms it takes, is the absolute key to liberation? Moving forward, we have to fully embrace our sexuality. There is simply no other logical progression I can see. School me if I am wrong.

Until we wholly reject their dominance over the idea that less sex is more virtuous for women than more, we will forever be giving them the keys to our pleasure, our passions, which they do not like to unlock. Remember, some go so far as surgically removing the parts of the female body that cause pleasure not required by a male presence. Did we come up with this?

We're told porn stars are faking it and women only go into things like that because they have to. If men didn't make sex work dangerous and illegal, we'd be completely in charge of who gets sex when and in exchange for what. Why would we make a sexual transaction illegal? We don't benefit from that. If it was legal and regulated and controlled by women. Well, wouldn't that threaten the status-quo?

Taking sex that isn't freely given.

Discouraging sexuality

Silencing women with fear of violence

All are very severe acts against humanity, Violence against women, rape are pathologies directly  stemming from the patriarchal narrative about female sexuality. We cannot evolve without dismantling patriarchy.

Men fare no better when less sex is valued. Conflict always about their desires and societies conventions, men split their sexuality into compartments, some eventually unable to see their partners and wives as sexual creatures anymore at all. Forced to feel guilty and shame about their desires, and even more so if  they indulge them with prostitutes or affairs, men suffer as well.

Young men, randy with testosterone cannot be anything but frustrated in a world of conflicting messages about female sexuality. Clearly girls want sex, but it's not ok that they want it.

I can only image the mindfuck that is for men.

Who was the Immaculate Conception? Not Jesus. Mary. The church believes so wholly that women are vile, dirty creatures that even the Virgin Mary had to be born of no defilement so she was conceived by an angel as well. Who were the church? Men who didn't want to marry or have sex with women, basically, it would appear. Right? I calls em like I sees em.

We are at a cross roads in our movement. The global backlash against women is in response to the rapid and cathartic changes that are taking place is reaching epic proportions with Trump advocating punishing women for abortions (he doesn't give a shit, but the fact that his followers do, is the issue).

The internet has allowed women as a whole to see ourselves in the totality, realizing, we have great power that we lost and will reclaim. We must fill the internet with OUR narrative about OUR sexuality. Women in other countries will be inspired and though very far off from where we are, will be able to envision a future for their daughters of sexual autonomy. Say it.

Sexual autonomy. The principle that each person owns the right to define their own sexuality without fear of violence, bigotry and hatred.  All gender, all orientations, including slut, all of our our personal sexual desires and preferences insofar as all acts are consensual,  should never be an area of political concern. Another's sexuality is not a topic for discussion. We don't judge it, shame it, discuss it, denounce it, make laws against it, expose it, use it to deny anything.

Educating girls about the extraordinary landscape of female sexuality should be a top priority in overturning patriarchal norms.

From a young age, girls should be taught that getting pleasure from sexuality is perfectly normal and when practiced and enjoyed on a regular basis will strengthen and tone the body for childbirth. Understanding the incredible musculature and anatomy of the pelvic area is crucial for women. The more mindful one becomes in their sexuality, the more skilled one becomes at recruiting every single muscle fiber into the orgasm. Why would this be so valuable? Many women report childbirth to be a cosmic, orgasmic pleasurable experience, beyond the obvious effort, not unlike the high a well trained athlete gets from a peak performance. They enter the Zone, a flow, that when put to the test in childbirth, must be able to transform that experience from one of pain, anguish and exhaustion, to one of ecstasy, exhiliration, challenge, and exhaustion. The analogy would be running a marathon after a training regimin of 2 to 3 times a week for about 15 minutes. That sounds like a bullshit painful experience.

Birthing a human offspring has to be the single hardest thing a human body does. I'm pretty sure we should be training a lot harder for it.

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